Kathy, Phil and me Wicklow 1939
Dad was a great shopper!
One day he was down by the quayside when a herring boat was landing its catch. It had been a good catch and, when Dad enquired how much the fishermen would sell a dozen for, they said.
Ah! Sure, Sir, Just take a dozen home with you as a present.
Dad was overcome by their generosity, but would not accept the fish as a gift. Instead he decided to buy a gross of them for the princely sum of five shillings. He brought them home and salted them and hung them up fairly tightly on four or five string lines in front of the huge coal-fired stove in the large basement kitchen which also served as our kitchen. There they hung for a day or so before we began to consume them. We ate baked herrings, grilled herrings, curried and curry-fried herrings, pickled herrings and you name it, we had them. Annie, our maid, must have had such a job trying to keep the smell of herrings out of the kitchen though, to be honest, I cant remember there being a smell of fish.
Then, on another occasion, Dad got carried away and bought a couple of enormous baskets of oranges. We had plenty of vitamin C, at least two oranges each, every day. The thing was that Dad insisted on peeling them for us. He would neatly slice the peels into segments and put them into a large earthenware jar. Every so often he would boil the segments of peel and make things like candied orange peel, marmalade and orange candies. The strangest thing is that I never did get fed up with oranges and to this day I like my share of orange vitamin C.
Annie, our maid, was a lovely young lady with a slim figure, a pretty face and beautiful auburn hair. Both of my sisters, Kathy and Phil, had auburn hair too, and the three of them could have passed for sisters quite easily. On one occasion just before Christmas 1939, Annie took us three elder children to Dublin, by train, for the day. We started our homeward journey after dark, and I can remember so well being amazed by the street and shop lights. This was the first European city I had seen at night and the hustle and bustle astounded me.
In India, there was plenty of activity throughout the day, but even when we had the opportunity of seeing the towns at night, there were never rows of street-lamps like there were in Dublin. In India there were kerosene oil lamps, hurricane lamps and the occasional Petromax lamp, and they were usually very scattered and mostly at eye-level or on the ground ; but in Dublin they were up in the air AND so bright and electric. It was wondrous to see.
I must tell you, though, that in the house in Wicklow there was no electricity and all the lighting was by gas. I was fascinated by the woven net mantles and decided one day to examine them closer. When nobody was about, I took a stick and again while nobody was looking, poked at the mantle in the hall outside the kitchen. It disintegrated into a million little pieces of ash. I was afraid that I was in for another rollocking, for surely it was obvious that I had broken the mantle. But I stayed quiet and waited for some reaction. A few minutes later Annie came in to light the lamp with a taper, hardly noticed what had happened, and calmly fitted a new mantle.
Visiting Clearys, the big department store in Dublin, was another huge eye-opening adventure with its escalators, the first I had ever seen or been on and, to my eyes, the largest store I had ever been in. I was dumbfounded at the merchandise and the different departments. There was such a lot of Christmas bunting and so many Christmas presents to be seen. I thought I could easily spend the rest of my life there and not see everything, and yet, when I next visited Dublin in the 1960s I realised that the store was a relatively modest-sized establishment.
Annie used to go to dancing lessons once a week and she persuaded Dad and Mum that Kathy and Phil should learn to do some Irish dancing too. Hence it was that the three of them went off each week to learn to do the Irish Reel. Then they would come home and practice their steps and demonstrate to the rest of the family how they were getting on. Haon, do, three, caher, cuig, shay, shacht, a Haon, do, three, caher, cuig, shay, shacht,, they would chant and skip about in the living room which was immediately below the Dowlings living room.
On more than one occasion this would set Peggy off. The foot thumping would start and then the piano would come in for another bashing while she sang. I used to be in stitches, but Mum and Dad kept suitably straight faces and instead, nodded approvingly at their daughters newly found interest and competence.
Then Mum and Dad would coax Annie into doing a couple of other dances. She was very shy of them, but she was a great dancer and finally, as red as a beetroot, she would step into the middle of the floor and dance. The one thing I could never understand why she always kept her arms down by her side. I thought it was in case her skirts flew up and she was afraid that we might see her knickers. To tell you the truth, I sometimes thought that she might not even be wearing any knickers!
I think the girls, Kathy and Phil, can still do the Irish Reel but they reliably assure me that they DO wear knickers.
A family outing Glendalough, 1939
The days in Ireland flew by. There seemed to be so much to do. We visited Glendalough, and Dad managed to get his arms around the famous St Kevin Cross to make a wish. Then there was the Vale of Avoca and lots of Sunday walks along the Strand and on to the cliffs and through the gorse bushes and south for a couple of miles. Mary, at two years of age, you will remember that she was born while we were in Mhow, India, in 1936, could do the walk with ease. We went to see Powerscourt and I marvelled at the size of the place and the neatness of the vast acreage of its grounds. I learned how to make pork sausages at Seamus Dunnes house in the bathroom, and took the minced meat from the bath-tub and forced it through a piece of piping until it came out the other end and filled the sausage skins. Then we would go and deliver them to outlying houses by van.
On Saturdays, I was often with Terence Magee when he received his weekly pocket money of six-pence and we would go straight around to the shop owned by Garka Phillips to buy half a pound of broken biscuits for a penny. While Garka was serving Terence, I would look longingly at the sweets and chocolates displayed on the counter and was often tempted to snitch one, but discretion was the name of the game and I was too scared to attempt the robbery. In our family we kids didnt get any pocket money at all, but I knew I could always eat some of Terrys broken biscuits, anyway.
One day, Dad and I had made our way to the quayside because we had been invited to go out on the lifeboat for a practice run with the crew. On the way there Dad had stopped at the greengrocers and bought me an apple.
Eat this, son, he had said, Itll give you something to throw-up instead of the soles of your boots.
I was indignant ; what was he talking about? Me? Throw up the soles of my boots? Im the expert sailor. Didnt I get over sea-sickness on the California?. But once the lifeboat took off and started to pitch and roll about in the sea, I was as sick as could be. Even Dad looked a bit green, but he managed to keep his heaving under control, which made me even sicker, especially when he recounted the days story to the family with such an air of superiority.
But the girls, and especially Mum, were not amused and were really kind and solicitous for my well being. Damn the bloody life-boat, I thought ; if the ship sinks on the way back to India Ill just go down with it and its captain those were glory days and glory stories and refuse to ride in a life-boat again Unless, of course, I could see a deserted, tropical island nearby with coconut palms and a raft, and Swiss Family Robinson with their tree house came to mind and I imagined I might, after all, take the risk in those circumstance.
Soon it was time to pack up and leave Wicklow and head for England and Sheerness where Dad was born. Actually, he was born in Bluetown in 1903, but Sheerness was the main town on the Isle of Sheppy and we always referred to Dads birthplace as Sheerness.
at Wicklow station 1939
We left from Dublin at the beginning of June 1939 and arrived in Sheppey a couple of days later. We disembarked the train at Sheerness East railway station, a tiny station which was no more than a halt but it was very convenient because it was situated right at the end of the Minster Broadway along which Grand-dad, Grand-ma and Uncle Arthur and later, his kids, plus my aunt, Kit, lived in a house called Kinsale.
Uncle Arthur, my Dads younger brother, worked in the Sheerness Royal Naval Dockyard which was easily, at that time, the largest employer on the island. He was injured in an accident some years previously, lost an eye and now wore a glass-eye. With the compensation he received, he bought the house and the whole family had moved into it with him.
Kinsale The Broadway, Minster 1939
Grandpa, Dads father, in the backyard of Kinsale 1939
Grand-dad looked after the garden and grew most of the vegetables which were needed by the family. Grand-ma did the house-work and Millie, Arthurs wife, had a job somewhere or the other locally. Auntie Kit had a job too and was courting heavily, as they used to say in those days. Her chap was named Ernie Cumberland and he too worked in the dockyard. He lived in Hope Street, Sheerness, which was a couple of miles from Minster, but I think the bus fare was only a penny and so he was regularly up to the house to visit Kit.
Anyway, within a couple of weeks, Ernie and Kit were married and the reception was held at the Minster Working Mens Club where our family had a photograph taken with Dad proudly standing in his army uniform. It was a very good photograph but my stocking was crumpled at the ankle and I got one hell of a rocket from Dad for being untidy.
Kit moved out of Kinsale and moved in with Ernie and his mother, Mrs Cumberland, a widow. She was a lovely, kind old Granny-type of lady who had a mass of silver hair tied in a bun on the back of her head, a round scrubbed and chubby look on her face and a permanent smile about her lips. At lunch time, when we were attending the islands Catholic Infants school for, rest assured, Dad had lost no time getting us installed there, we kids would go around to her house and eat our lunch-time sandwiches. The house was only fifty or so yards from the school. Ernie used to come home for his lunch too. He would roll up his sleeves and scrub his hands, get washed in the sink in the kitchen and then sit down to eat whatever his mother had prepared for him. It was usually a great pile of boiled cabbage, several boiled potatoes and a piece of meat.
After he was done eating, he would clear the table, take out his newspaper, The Daily Mirror, and give his mother and the rest of us the news. One day though, he produced a mouth-organ instead and began to play tunes which we all knew and sang along to.
Can you play a mouth-organ, Patrick? he asked me.